People sometimes choose godparents for purely social reasons. They think the godparent's role is largely a symbolic one, having more to do with social custom and religious tradition than anything else. And sometimes parents experience social pressure as a result. They may feel obligated to choose a particular relative or friend to stand as godparent to their child because they do not want to offend this person or make him or her feel left out. The Church understand this dilemma, but insists that social reasons cannot be the main consideration in the selection of a godparent.

People sometimes choose godparents for another reason. They think of godparents as designated legal guardians - persons who will look after their children if something should happen to them. This is not necessarily the case. The Church maintains that choosing a godparent for this reason should not be the chief consideration.

The godparent's role is simply and solely to assist the parent in giving the child a Catholic upbringing. Therefore, choosing godparents for your child is very important - so important that the Church lays down rather stringent requirements.

• Must be a practising Catholic: who is fully initiated by the sacraments of Baptism, Confirmation and Eucharist
• Must be at least 16 years of age: (exceptions can be made for a just cause)

• Before baptism: godparents should check on the level of their own faith and practice;
• During baptism: they join with the parents and the community in professing the faith of the Church - the faith into which the child is being baptized;
• After baptism: godparents can exercise their responsibilities in two ways:
  • By praying each day for their godchild and for his or her family;
  • By witnessing to the Christian life through their example.

Godparents should make a special point of remembering their godchild at Christmas and Easter, on his or her birthday, and on the anniversary of baptism. They should try to select gifts (especially gifts of a religious nature) which show their love and concern for the spiritual welfare of their godchild.

The Good Shepherd Parish encourages parents who are preparing for their child's baptism to pray for Gods help and guidance, and to ponder carefully their choice of godparents. They should also be ready to discuss with prospective godparents issues and ideas raised in this pamphlet, and involve the godparents in the preparation process. Being a godparent is a serious undertaking, and we hope that parents will bear this in mind when they ask someone to stand up on behalf of their child.